It isn’t a big deal to associate with the good and gentle for this is naturally pleasing to all, and everyone willingly enjoys peace, and loves those who agree with them the most. But to be able to live at peace with hard and perverted people, or with the disorderly, or with folks who go contrary to us, this is a great grace, and a most commendable and “ Godly cool ” thing to do. (CIoC) S A 2 Christopher Avery’s Responsibility Process is a great place to start in regard to enhancing relationships.